And it seems like in the end; its the ones you trusted the most that make the most damage.
Maybe we trust the wrong ones? Maybe you can’t trust anybody besides yourself because you never really know what people have up their sleeves.
Do they have something they are trying to get out of you? Do people really have hidden agendas? Is really only about themselves and never anybody else?
Trust is the hardest thing to give and the easisest thing to break. In some ways it is like a vase or a glass. Once it is broken, it can be easily fixed but it will never be the same. Once trust has been broken by somebody, you never have the same relationship.
Why trust somebody when all they are gonna do is show you that you shouldn’t! I think they only way you could really ever trust somebody, is knowing that you can first trust yourself to make the right decisions about your life and your friendships. Once you have trusted yourself and are confident with what you have done, then can you only make the right decisions to trust the right people.
Is it also then that the ones that to you think you can’t trust end up being the ones you should have trusted all along? Why is that? Have we just been wrong all along or is it that those ones don’t try to earn your trust.
Trust I believe is one of the hardest things about being a human being. Most of us to begin with don’t know who we are ourselves, so therefore putting trust in the wrong or right people could or couldn’t hurt us. If that makes any sense??? To add to all of that we also have our emotions that play a major role factor in those kind of decisions. Our emotions could be leading us the wrong ways or they couldn’t. This is why i’m talking about we have to know ourselves first in order to trust people.
I think most people when they look for trust or are deciding who to trust; trust people to be who we want them to be instead of us getting to know the person then trust them for who they really are.
Trust is also a bond. When you love somebody it is so very important that you can trust them. If there is no trust then there really is no relationship.
This quote is one of the best quotes I have ever seen and will love forever. Its a little harsh but sometimes I believe its really true.
“There are people I know who won’t hurt me. I call them corpses.”